Karen Coomber, author of "Not What Nature Intended" (AuthorHouse), tells her story of cosmetic surgery in Belgium
I realise that the press is swamped with breast enhancement
stories and I guess you are wondering what makes me interesting or
different. From my perspective, it seems that most stories
featured are bad news, most are detrimental to surgery and are negative.
Most stories are of those who seem to have increased their bust size to immense
proportions. All, only talk of the surgery per se, a snapshot.
My story is in direct contrast, it is of a life story, a
journey. It is deeply personal; it is real and honest and has never been
done before. Women who have read it, can identify with what I went
through and find it refreshing, insightful and endearing. It talks of my
sorrow and disappointment with my body and how I came to the decision
eventually (at 37) to take the plunge. Many women identify with
this. The book takes the reader on my own personal journey, through the
incredible pain, through the excitement, through the sadness and beyond.
I did go to Belgium,
many say not to. I did have my body cut for purely cosmetic reasons, many
think this is unreal. I do have a 'high powered' job in the City, many
think as I am confident in my job that I should be confident in all
aspects of my life.... I am just a normal person, and from my research, I am
one of many thousands of women. At my book launch at Waterstones, I had
women buy my book as they are considering surgery and do not know who to ask
about the experience. One lady in particular (who is going to be 50 this
year) is having surgery as her birthday present; my book was her first present
to herself for this journey.
I had my surgery in July 2006 at Elyzea in Belgium. My Consultant was Mr Moraci.
Regarding the outcome, other than the birth of my
daughter, it has been the hugest thing in my life, I cannot imagine life
now without them. I can't even remember what I looked like
before. Its as though it made me come alive. It has given me
confidence, made me feel more like a woman, made me much happier in my own skin
and, in my opinion, made me look better.
It did not affect my relationship with my partner; this is
because I did not do it for that reason. My partner loved me before
and still loves me. I think that people that have surgery to make
them more attractive to the opposite sex or 'fanciable' do it for the wrong
reasons as beauty and likeability comes from within, I believe.
So, why did I do this?
Why did I put myself out there?
The book started as a diary, I kept a diary at the time as, for me, the
journey was so important. I had often
kept diaries and so this was not unusual for me. I decided to turn it into a book to share
with others my experiences. Experiences
of what it is really all about, how it feels and what, in reality (and for
most, I guess) it is like. It is not all
about what we normally read; of tragedy, of disasters, of wanting to make
people love us, of increasing to immense proportions. It is about wanting to feel right, to feel
normal and to feel comfortable within our own skin.
I don’t regret it; my only regret is not having the surgery
sooner.
Patient story supplied by Elyzea Cosmetic Surgery.
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